A eulogy for David Barrett

The Braemar Allstars are saddened to report the passing last week of our good friend and Treasurer, David Barrett. His close friend, one-time teammate and fellow Braemar Allstar, Pat Berton has penned the following wonderful eulogy:

"We all very much regret the passing of our friend David Barrett last week after a long period of poor health.

“David arrived at Cobham, as so many of us did, as a mini rugby parent in the late 90s. He had played his best rugby at Wasps and then in the gold and black of Esher, but was willingly scooped up by the talent dragnet of Dick Frost into his epic All Stars. A bulky and obdurate presence at number six, he played both forcefully and thoughtfully. An avid tourist, he enjoyed a number of trips to Paris and Dublin and notably to the Jersey 10s to sample that island’s delights.

“David was a true rugby man and provided admirable leadership and commitment just when it was needed, becoming head coach of his son Fraser’s age group as they entered Youth Rugby. He instantaneously implanted discipline, organisation and good communication. Rapidly he wrote and provided coaches, parents and players with a weighty training manual including moves, drills, fitness and behaviour requirements. David made those boys as successful as they could be – and added some secret sauce; a great networker, he befriended many parents of Fraser’s school friends, who then also came down to strengthen the Cobham squad.

“David had a successful business career. He just said it as it was, no BS detected. Immensely good hearted, he above all supported his family. He had a great gift for friendship and had – and has – a large and loyal fan club. Many of us have enjoyed his hospitality and his company at Cobham, at Quins games, at music nights locally – a thrifty rock fan, he loved the tribute band scene in Surrey. For many years he owned a ski chalet at Val Thorens in the French Alps and an annual ski trip there was a February highlight for him and his party, David’s motto being: “Ski fast, drink faster!” as he hurled himself manically down black and red runs, then back home for good red wine. A decent golfer and a keen fisherman, he was the quintessential English sporting gentleman.

“A man who lived life to the full. He may have gone but will not be forgotten and will be greatly missed."

Pat Berton

Further information and details of David's funeral arrangements will follow.